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Updated: Jun 19, 2023


A wedding is a blissful celebration of love, and the first glimpse guests get into this joyous occasion is through the wedding invitations. These carefully crafted cards not only convey the essential details but also set the tone and theme for the event. For couples planning a wedding in the breathtaking Highlands of North Carolina, the invitation becomes an opportunity to showcase the natural beauty and charm of this picturesque destination. In this blog post, we will explore ideas for creating captivating wedding invitations that perfectly capture the essence of Highland weddings in North Carolina.



Nature-Inspired Designs

Photo credits: The Willets

When it comes to Highland weddings, the natural beauty of the surroundings serves as a the perfect inspiration for your wedding stationery suite. Incorporate elements inspired by the lush greenery and towering mountains into your invitation design. Consider using botanical illustrations, watercolor landscapes, or floral motifs to create an aesthetic that matches the setting.


Rustic Elegance

The Highlands of North Carolina are known for their rustic charm, making it an excellent theme for wedding invitations. Opt for earthy tones, such as warm browns, deep greens, or soft neutrals, to reflect the region's natural aesthetic. Add rustic elements like twine or dark green ribbon to infuse a touch of elegance into the invitation suite.


Watercolors of the area

Make your invitation suite your own by adding watercolors that reflect the scenery and the venue! You can draw inspiration from the setting with pine trees and mountain landscapes. Or you can use places where your wedding events will take place, like the bridal hut at Old Edwards Inn!



Wedding invitations for Highland weddings in North Carolina present an exciting opportunity to infuse the charm and natural beauty of the region into your design. From nature-inspired motifs and rustic elegance to mountain graphics and watercolors, there are endless possibilities to capture the essence of this enchanting destination. Let your wedding invitations serve as a glimpse into the beautiful scenery that awaits them!


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Wedding invitations are an important aspect of the wedding planning process. They set the tone for the event and provide important information for guests, such as the date, time, and location of the wedding. We find that the most time consuming part of wedding stationery planning is gathering and organizing your guest addresses. At Paper Daisies Stationery, one of the main questions we are asked is how to address your invitations?


When it comes to gathering your guest list, there are a few different scenarios that can arise – here’s our how to guide to addressing wedding invitations!


Inner & outer envelopes


Traditionally, wedding invitations came with both an inner and outer envelope. The outer envelope was addressed to the household, while the inner envelope listed the names of the individuals who were invited.


The purpose of the inner envelope is to provide an extra layer of protection for the invitation and to ensure that each individual knows they are personally invited to the wedding.


Here are the most common instances we see -


Outer envelope | Married couple
Mr. and Mrs. John Smith
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345

Inner envelope | Married couple
Mr. and Mrs. Smith

or

John and Jane

(note: first names only can be seen as more casual)


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Outer envelope | Married couple when woman kept her maiden name
Mrs. Jane Doe and Mr. John Smith
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345

Inner envelope | Married couple when woman kept her maiden name
Mrs. Doe and Mr. Smith

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Outer envelope | Juniors
Mr. and Mrs. John Smith, junior
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345

Inner envelope | Juniors
Mr. and Mrs. Smith, junior

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Outer envelope | Married couple who are both doctors

The Drs. Smith
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345

or

The Drs. John and Jane Smith
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345

Inner envelope | Married couple who are both doctors

The Doctors Smith

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Outer envelope | A couple where one is a doctor

(the doctor will go first, no matter the gender)

Dr. Jane and Mr. John Smith
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345

or

Dr. John and Mrs. John Smith
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345

Inner envelope | A couple where one is a doctor

Dr. Jane and Mr. John Smith

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Outer envelope | Family with children

Mr. and Mrs. John Smith
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345

Inner envelope | Family with children

Mr. and Mrs. John Smith
Jane, Samantha and Jack

(children will only go on the inner envelope and children over the age of 18 should receive their own invitation)


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Outer envelope | Couple who lives together but are not married

Mr. John Smith and Ms. Jane Doe
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345

or

Mr. John Smith
Ms. Jane Doe
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345

Inner envelope | Couple who lives together but are not married

Mr. John Smith and Ms. Jane Doe

or

John and Jane

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Outer envelope | Single man or woman

Mr. John Smith
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345

or

Ms. Jane Doe
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345

Inner envelope | Single man or woman

Mr. Smith

or

Ms. Doe

John

or

Jane

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Outer envelope | Single man or woman with a plus-one

Mr. John Smith
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345

or

Ms. Jane Doe
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345

Inner envelope | Single man or woman with a plus-one

Mr. Smith and guest

or

Ms. Doe and guest

(guests will only go on the inner envelope)


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Outer envelope | Single man or woman with a known guest

Mr. John Smith
Ms. Jane Doe
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345

Inner envelope | Single man or woman with a known guest

Mr. Smith
Ms. Doe

(list your friend first, regardless of gender, and their guest on the line below)


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Outer envelope | Same gender couple

Mr. John & Jacob Smith
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345

(if they share the same last name)

or

Mr John Smith & Mr. Jacob Williams
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345

(if they share they have different last names)


Inner envelope | Same gender couple

Mr. and Mr. Smith

or

Mr. Smith and Mr. Williams

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Outer envelope | Non-binary guests

Mx. John Smith
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345

Inner envelope | Non-binary guests

Mx. Smith

or

John

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Outer envelope | Couple where one guest is a judge or governor

The Honorable and Mrs. John Smith
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345

Inner envelope | Couple where one guest is a judge

Judge and Mrs. Smith

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Outer envelope | Couple where a guest is a member of the clergy

The Reverend and Mrs. John Smith
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345

Father Simon Peter
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345

Rabbi and Mrs. John Smith
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345

Inner envelope | Couple where a guest is a member of the clergy

The Reverend and Mrs. Smith

Father Peter

Rabbi and Mrs. Smith

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Outer envelope | Couple where the male is a military officer

Colonel and Mrs. John Smith
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345

Inner envelope | Couple where the male is a military officer

Colonel and Mrs. Smith

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Outer envelope | Couple where the female is a military officer

General Kimberly Stone, U.S. Army and Mr. Jason Dean
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345

Inner envelope | Couple where the female is a military officer

General Stone and Mr. Jason Dean






Outer envelopes

While inner and outer envelopes were traditionally used for wedding invitations, many couples opt to skip the inner envelope for cost.


If you are only using an outer envelope, in some circumstances you will need to address it a bit differently than if you were using both envelopes. Here are those special cases!



Family with children

Mr. and Mrs. John Smith
Jane, Samantha and Jack
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345

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Outer envelope | Single man or woman with a plus-one

Mr. John Smith and guest
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345

or

Ms. Jane Doe and guest
1234 Paper Daisies Lane
Atlanta, Georgia 12345


At Paper Daisies, we offer computer calligraphy services to print on your envelopes for you! If you select computer calligraphy when building your cart and placing your order, we will send over our guest list templates for you to use to help guide you. When we receive your completed guest list, we will send you a proof of each address so you can check for accuracy and make sure your envelopes are perfect before we send to print!


In the event you have any questions not covered in this blog, reach out to your dedicated designer and we can help!


Happy addressing!


Love,

The Paper Daisies team






 
 
 

Photo by Sixteen Miles Out

With restrictions on large gatherings loosening up, the vaccination-era wedding boom has begun. Venues and vendors all over the US are accommodating bookings as far as late 2022 and early 2023, as couples who have had to put off a big wedding during the pandemic and those who had always intended to marry this year drive up demand. With that in mind, planning your nuptials can feel like a lot of pressure. Here are five questions couples should ask for smooth wedding planning: 1. How many guests should you invite? As soon as you get engaged, couples should start thinking about the guest list. Keep in mind that the wedding venue will often dictate the size of the wedding. To estimate the number of guests you’re going for, start building a list based on the people you can’t imagine not being there for your big day. This helps spell out the difference between people who will DEFINITELY be invited, people who you'd LIKE to invite, and people you'll consider if there's room in the budget/venue. Afterwards, you’ll need to prepare the wedding invitations. A wedding invite is a peek into the celebration that lies ahead, so it should convey the tone and style your guests should expect for your big day. Naturally, an invite should also include the most important details, like the couples’ names, the venue, and the date and time of the event.

2. How much money are you ready to spend? Many couples dream about having a big wedding with all the bells and whistles, but are concerned about the money they’d need to spend. Aside from wedding costs rising every year, couples have other expenses to consider — like buying a home. If you are planning for the long-term, say three years, you still have time to save up. Certified financial planner Michelle Brownstein recommends setting up an investment fund, so you can generate income. Another option is to keep your money in a high-yield savings account. High-yield accounts compound interest rates on your balance, so you can gain additional interest every day. Of course, you can still have a stunning wedding on a tighter budget, but it may require some DIY projects and creativity on your part. If it's in the budget, we highly recommend hiring a wedding planner. They have experience in stretching budgets and prioritizing your "must haves." They can negotiate deals with vendors they’ve worked with before, and guide you through ideas you may not have considered. Even seemingly small details — like hiring a band versus hiring a DJ — can provide more cost-savings than the other, and no one knows better than a wedding planner. 3. Who should be in your wedding party? Both people getting married would need to choose their wedding party well ahead of the big day. Typically, couples choose from their siblings, best friends, and closest family members. You also have to ask a number of questions: How many people do you want in your wedding party? Does the number of people need to match on both sides of the aisle? Do you want them to stand up with you the whole time or sit down to keep the focus on you? How many people can fit in the space around you while you’re saying “I do?”

Photo by Katelyn MacMillan

You can also include some members of the wedding party by asking them to serve in active roles as ushers or readers. Finally, wedding party costs can add up, so they should be handled with sensitivity and transparency. Be mindful of everyone’s budget, and try to stay upfront about any time-related commitments. You should give your loved ones the option to refuse if they wish. 4. Where should you host the ceremony and reception?

Photo by Foto Pettine

Given the pandemic restrictions, many people are itching to travel — which is why wedding venue trends are headed towards the beach or other exotic destinations. A destination wedding is any celebration that requires a majority of guests to travel and is planned remotely from another city. Destination weddings are fantastic experiences, but they often come with logistical challenges. Why not plan a local wedding using a travel-inspired theme instead? Another consideration is choosing between indoor and outdoor venues. Outdoor weddings are beautiful, but they’re not always ideal for every season — if you're asking your guests to attend an outdoor fall or winter wedding, consider adding outdoor heaters and blankets to your “must have” list. A backup plan for inclement weather is also something to consider for outdoor weddings; this is why some people choose covered areas like barns and pavilions, or indoor venues like museums and hotels. If you can’t decide, then a fully-equipped wedding tent could be a great backup option too. 5. What do we want the wedding day to feel like? We encourage couples to focus not only on the look but also the feel of their wedding. The ‘feel’ of the wedding may sound unfamiliar, but it’s a great way to narrow down your choices. You will likely start building your mood board with florals and color palettes to match the season or venue, but also consider building on words like ‘cozy’, ‘elegant’, ‘timeless’, ‘adventurous’, ‘romantic’, and so on. Think about details that can describe you as individuals and as a couple, then focus on how to tell your love story through the little things. Once you’ve figured out what really matters to both of you, it'll be easier to narrow down your options to create your wedding vision. It’s important to bring in vendors and suppliers who can really carry the theme you’ve set.

Paper Daisies is a design studio that specializes in stationery for big celebrations. We’re committed to serve our clients as a one-stop shop for personalized invitations, napkins, and signage. Contact us today to learn more about how we can help you.


Written exclusively for Blog.paper-daisies.com

by Amy Calmers

 
 
 
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